DISHEARTENING facts

There seems to many things and factors should i say that could pull you anything in any point of your life.... Even in facebook pictures could pull u down... Even the slightest things could make a big impact in your life.... Also when one thing triggers the another, it would be endless and the party at the losing end is always the person who stay and never change his mind.... I mean if we find something that has no future, hope, expectations, we should not stay in there for so long or we will have a deep scar in our hearts and person as a whole...When seeing such things u have to put away personnal thoughts and move on in a realistic ways... Thi is hard to execute but also the best prevention to keep you from harm.... I find this hard to do and i have never execute it before.... There is one thing that i wanted to leave very long but i could not bear to do that as it has already became a part of me. Also it pains me when ever i am absent from it, i still keep the beautiful memories in me...... However i cant to kick it away or ignore it... I have always wanting to excel in that area but iFAILED, EPIC FAIL. i could not understand the reason why i failed... I saw photos on fb of people who sussceeded and went on very far and i am still at the same point.... I could not believe why i failed, people like me who failed???? WHY?